Why Did Your Mother and Grandmother Give Milk Cream to Daughters — But Not to Sons? : (Healer Anjali Jadhav, Thane)

When we were children, many of us saw this at home —
Mother would scrape the cream from the edge of the milk pot and lovingly give it to her daughters, but never to her son.
She would say, “If boys eat malai, their beard and moustache will take longer to grow!”

At that time, it seemed like just a household belief.
But today’s science confirms that behind this practice lies a subtle, intelligent piece of natural wisdom.

???? What Does Milk Cream Contain?

Milk is a complete food — it contains fats, proteins, vitamins, minerals, and natural hormones.
When milk is boiled, the top layer of cream (malai) that forms is the most concentrated part of the milk’s fat and hormones.

 Hormones and the Natural Effect of Malai

Milk naturally contains a few hormones, such as:

Estrogen

Progesterone

Prolactin

IGF-1 (Insulin-like Growth Factor)

All these are fat-soluble hormones, which means they easily dissolve in fat and therefore accumulate more in the cream layer.

 Benefits of Malai for Girls

Natural estrogen nourishes the skin and hair.

It helps keep the skin soft, smooth, and glowing.

Supports hormonal balance naturally.

This is why even today, malai is widely used in face packs and beauty treatments.

Note:
 Even for women, malai should be consumed in moderation — excessive intake may increase cholesterol or weight gain.

???? Why Should Boys Avoid It?

The female hormones present in milk (estrogen, progesterone, prolactin) are more concentrated in the cream.
If boys eat malai regularly, these estrogen-like compounds may slightly increase in the body.

This can mildly slow down testosterone activity (male hormone) or cause subtle changes in hormonal balance.

Hence, our traditional mothers used to say —

 “Give malai to girls, not to boys,”
— a simple line that actually protected the body’s natural hormonal balance

 Holistic Perspective

Our mothers and grandmothers may not have used scientific terms,
but they deeply understood nature’s intelligence.
Through experience, they realized that milk cream helps enhance feminine qualities,
and that limiting its intake for boys helps maintain masculine balance.

Their traditional practices were, in fact, examples of practical hormonal wisdom long before modern science explained it.

Summary:
Milk cream (malai) is rich in natural estrogen, nourishing for skin and hair, and a food that supports feminine energy.
For girls, it is beneficial in moderation; for boys, limited intake is wiser — that’s the timeless wisdom of our mothers. 

Disclaimer:
The above information is based on traditional knowledge, observations, and certain scientific references.
This article is intended solely for educational and awareness purposes.
It is not a substitute for professional medical diagnosis, treatment, or medication.
Every individual’s body structure and hormonal levels are different; therefore, it is advisable to consult a qualified nutritionist or doctor before making any dietary or lifestyle changes.